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Us circa 2009. We look like babies. <3 |
Lui and I met on the day that I accepted the Lord. I remember after I accepted, the pastor had all of the Youth come up and shake my hand, well me being my crazy self and also coming from a very loving hispanic family I greeted everyone with a hug and a kiss hahaha and that day Lui happened to be one of the only guys that came to greet me and when I have him the hug and the kiss he hesitated as though it was the first hug he ever got from a girl. That day Roxana (his sister) offered to give me a ride to my house but she didn't have her car so we had to take Luis' car. Being in the car with them was fun and somehow when we got to my house Lui asked me "hey let me have your number so that if you ever need a ride to church you can call me" (what a line right?! hahaha) so I pulled out my phone to input his number and he did the same, but somehow he was a nervous wreck and couldn't figure out how to add a new contact to his phone so we decided that he would give me his number and when I would call him my number would register, poor baby was such a mess with his nerves.
Fast forward a few weeks it was a cold night mid November and I was trying to get to the 8pm church service and I was running late so I decided instead of taking the bus I would call Luis (you know, being as he had offered to give me a ride) I called him and he turned me down stating he was working late that night (can you say fail…) but the good part of me calling and asking for a ride was that now he had my number lol.
Now its Wednesday the day before Thanksgiving ( I remember this day as if it was yesterday) and I get this random text asking me how I was and what I was doing, of course I answered back (why? I don't know) so we started talking and then he goes and drops a bomb and texts me "can I ask you a question? but don't get mad" haha I of course said I wouldn't get mad then he asked the question "Do you have a boyfriend?" oh gosh did that question send all sorts of butterflies running through me but why? I had a "boyfriend" how could I get so excited and jittery all at once. We talked for hours and hours it was unbelievable, I never had that sort of connection in which I could talk to anyone about anything and everything, from school to work to family to church; we talked about past relationships and about our current ones because…you guessed it he was also in a relationship.
That night we talked for hours until way past midnight and the next day we had already volunteered to go hand out food to the homeless so we saw each other again on Thanksgiving day, that morning was so weird, I'm not the type of girl to ever get nervous, but this day I was so nervous, I couldn't even concentrate properly during the service because I kept focusing on if I looked good or if my hair looked fine ( this is soooo not me) and then somehow we got paired up to go in the same church van.
So there I was in the church van talking to Erica and Jenny and out of nowhere Lui walked past me in the van and accidentally brushed his shoulder against my shoulder and we both turned beet red (what in the world?! who is this girl???!) The entire time we were giving out food we kept giving each other the flirty eye and kept bumping into each other by accident (serious accidents lol ). By the end of the day we were texting every chance we could, even throughout Thanksgiving dinner and until we fell asleep talking on the phone (something he promised he hated) but how could we be doing that? We both had relationships, so the next day ( friday in the afternoon) we talked and we came to a point that we could no longer talk to each other while still being in a relationship so we hung up and each broke up with our significant others. About an hour later he called me back again and told me that he didn't want to go that long again without talking to me again, I was still a little hesitant to jump in to a new relationship so fast. Then he started texting me:
"I want to marry you"
"Give me an opportunity and I will make you the happiest woman on earth"
"Let me show you the world and make you happier than you've ever been"
…well after all those texts I decided that I would comply to a date because lets face it I was falling in love really fast without even going out with him. I was really really into him. That Sunday morning he picked me up to go to church and get some coffee before the service. We talked about going to see a movie after the service and when it actually came down to going to go see that movie we never actually even get to go inside and watch it (we wanted to see 2012) because we stayed in the car the entire night just talking and laughing, until it was the end of the night and as you know that awkward silence began and this guy wasn't making the move. I was shouting in my head
"KISSSSS ME!"
but nothing until I told him to hand me his phone and I texted him saying
"you lost the opportunity to kiss me"
which I was going to hand back him when he dropped me off, at least that was my plan... until he started asking for his phone back and kept trying to snatch it away so I let him have it. The moment he read the text he went from ghost white to tomato red and sweat droplets started forming on his forehead (see when I say I am crazy) then after that we both leaned forward and kissed, it was the most magical sweet and intense kiss ever. It was like as though two magnets that were meant to always be together and that was the beginning of it all..
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Dec. 2009 |